What is love? Love is a very special and meaningful word to each human being. Each human being has his/her own thoughts about love to guide himself/herself to land safely and smoothly into the kingdom of Love. Without this preconceived idea of love, people would be acting like a blind person searching for the light with thousand of obstacles in front of him.
What is Love? I know this question exists in each human being's mind including myself. If not it is still waiting to be discovered deeply in your heart. What do I think of love? For me, I believe love is a priceless diamond, because a diamond has thousands of reflections, and each reflection represents a meaning of love. With love I can accept a person's imperfections without any condition, and able to transfer the way I love myself to another person who I am fancy at. With love I can have the power against loneliness, sadness, and illness, and to be able to change them into my happiness. As well as, having a key to open my heart to look at this world without a mask, to show people who I really am. But on the other hand, my love cannot be a substitute for anything, which means nothing can be substituted for my love. It also means those reflections of the diamond cannot be replaced by any kind of light or reflection, because the untrue reflection will not be a real diamond, and will not be able to spread out its resplendent and meaningful reflection of love to people about whom I care.
What will happen if people live without love? In my point of view, without love I may lose my ability to survive in this world with no hope. Without love I can be defined as a rat living in the sewer, with no chance to see our beautiful land and with no chance to lighten up myself against the darkness. As well as, I may lose many opportunities of enjoyment both mentally and physically, when I do not know what love is.
Do you want to live with love or without love? For me, my answer will be positive. Because I believe love is a special and meaningful diamond, which can spread out the reflection of Love to people generously, as well as sending out the invitation to welcome my friends and people who I love to come to my kingdom of love. Therefore people should not hesitate to own this priceless diamond to enhance your life as the way I enhanced mine.
Losing someone who can not be replaced by anyone else is harder than anything else. I was affected by this, learning to overcome all of the emotional disturbances that I had to face.
and broken heart?
At one point or another, it had become obvious what was right and what was wrong: The feelings that flowed free, those that ran true to its course had become all that was left in this misery-corroded corpse, simply a memory of its otherwise forgotten glory. The golden days of its youthful infamy had all been erased, taken out of context and relocated to another beautiful face, set into another moment in time as true. Those words uttered into deathly pillows had become all the more true, anchored into existence by a dying request from an already dead man. And simply because one had come to exist, one assumed it to have been human nature that one could have loved in such a short period of time.To love is to know one’s self as others see one’s self and then, justly, to have to come to a valid conclusion concerning one’s self and then coming to a similar conclusion about another individual. In this instance, what is love, if not but the acceptance of another human being, the assimilation and merging of two varied intellects into one unique individual? Was that not the original basis of marriage and thus its beauty? The merging of two to become one, a complete complement, should one choose to go so far.
In the same way that one merges into another being should one also merge one’s self with the overall idea of love, not necessarily the commercialized rendition of a human being’s truest and most sincere of emotions. On the contrary, one should become familiar with the absolute truth, not the marketing industry’s truth concerning the matter. Love should have grown into something beautiful, into something so unimaginable that the world could stand in awe of its glamour. And yet, here is the world, destroying a once sacred emotion, hollowing it out, carving out the purity of humanity, what little bit be left. Amorous falseness, loving despair — aren’t these all trademarks of the ever-growing commercialistic idea of “love” in the long run? To hate one’s self has become a form of love, the most extreme of ideas. But one has digressed.
Symbolically, the heart was the root of all emotion; to give another one’s heart was to give to another control over one’s life. A selfless act, surely, but to what extent was this held true? He made me do it. I couldn’t control myself. All of these are valid arguments when presented with a simple truth of love. To love is to know one’s self, to know the self of another in the same light. But, to be in love, is that so similar?
In love, such a cosmic ideology, such wonder, such splendor — may the answer reign down in abysmal glory to he who knows only of its depths and its deceit. May lovers come from far and wide and recount and recollect stories of an absolute truth, one that cannot be unreal for constancy makes for validation. In the quiet, rumbling storm of love, does one stand a chance when an umbrella from another cannot even be supplied from the goodness of another’s heart? The deepest of truths is the one that all wish to deny on some singular plane of existence for its creation, its birth mocks the very fabrics from which this reality was sewn; that is unacceptable.
To destroy what existed, to make untrue what has always been such — isn’t that “in love?” Unmaking of existence, destruction and despair — isn’t that, also “in love?” To cope, to become…to realize — that is “in love.” In love is simply a term used to describe the phenomenon that transpires when two beings have become perfect complements, equals on all sides, a perfect equilibrium. At this moment in time, one has come to realize a unique and otherwise unattainable tranquility, a hopeful tomorrow, should one will it. This is a moment in which all things are all, and yet, nothing is everything, all at once, these thoughts they flow, they breed and more come, similar and more profound, more so than their originators, than their ancestors. Such is love, such is life.
Let's face it. Many of us choose to hang on to things that at some point have hurt us, angered us, made us feel sad, or depressed us. If we choose to hang on to them, we will never move forward and we could even create physical or medical damage to our bodies. To prevent this from happening we need to let go but no one really tells you how to let go and move forward. Sure it's easy to say: "Just let go, move forward, forget about it, just let go." But that really doesn’t work. I’m about to show you how to let go and start moving forward.
Why You Need to Let Go and Move Forward.
Throughout our lives we go through different experiences, some are positive and some we see as negative and unpleasant. When you hang on to a negative or unpleasant experience you are constantly thinking about it. And when you constantly think about that negative event you prevent yourself from healing. How many pleasant memories do you recall everyday? Chances are you're like most people and you have a number of unpleasant experiences that you're holding on to, which is preventing you from moving forward.
The more you carry the worse life gets. Why? Because you've filled your mind up with negative experiences, because you continually hang on to something that doesn't allow you to move forward, in short, you're carrying useless baggage that's really slowing you down.
Think of it this way: you're on a hiking trip and along the way you keep picking up heavy objects, things that really don't serve you. After a while, these objects begin to slow you down and unless you get rid of them, you'll never complete your trip.
To let go you have to get your mind to focus on different goals and different objectives. It's not about saying: I let go of the pain from my fight with ---- and move on. That will help, but if you really want to start moving on, then you have to get your mind to focus on new things, in the process you automatically let go of the things that have been slowing you down.
How to Let Go and Move Forward
Researchers believe that that if you hold on to negative feelings, sad emotions or depressing memories there is a possibility that you could reshape the human cell to the point where your thoughts of the past have a negative effect on your cells and your physical health.
Hanging on to negative past events is a process that can destroy your life in ways you're not even aware of. Ask yourself these questions: Do the negative things you hang on to serve you any purpose? Do they help you move forward? Do they work in your favor in any way? If you said no to any or all of the above then tell yourself this: This emotion/feeling doesn't help me so I'm letting it go and focusing on what is important. Then begin focusing on what you want next, focus on what is important and what can improve your life. This is a simple process that gets the mind moving in a new direction and you stop building negative energy created from the negative events/emotions, which only attracts more negative situations. When you begin focusing on more positive things you begin attracting positive situations.
The next step is to create an action plan, the past is over. Where do you want to go now and how do you plan to get there? You may not have the answers but merely thinking about the options forces your mind to go in a new direction and you automatically let go of unwanted feelings and emotions.
The key to your success is to train your mind to move in a new direction so you send new messages to your subconscious mind, which then brings you the opportunities to move forward.
The final step is to live in the present moment, to start living in the now. Living in the now is different than living for the moment. Living in the now is the process of enjoying everything that is going on at this present moment. Take a look around you and appreciate those things that you once thought were trivial. When you are here now you can be nowhere else. You are not hanging on to something, you are here now. I know some of you may say the following: "But Karim, where I am right now really sucks, I don't want to think about it." It only sucks because you're looking at all the negative things going on. Focus on a few of the positive things anything from nature to the wonderful family you may have. This forces your mind to look at things differently and tells your subconscious mind that you're ready for new possibilities, then you’ll begin to let go and move forward.
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